Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Supreme Harness

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The A-spot, or anterior fornix erogenous zone, is a sensitive area of tissue at the end of the vaginal canal. “When stimulated, this can heighten arousal, activate vaginal lubrication, and spark an orgasm,” explains Boyajian.

designed specifically for bigger bodies, try the NYTC’s Mason. It’s longer, making it easier to use, without added If a person with a penis has a partner with a vulva, the harness can be worn by their partner to achieve anal penetration. Sometimes called pegging, this form of anal penetration can be incredibly physically pleasurable for people with penises, says Boyajian. “The prostate is located just a few inches inside the anus, toward the belly. For some, stimulating the prostate can produce pleasurable sensations and better orgasms.”

The anus does not self-lubricate, so lube is an absolute must for anal play,” says Boyajian. “No matter how turned on you may be, there is nothing to prevent unwanted friction unless you add lube. Not only does this help to prevent painful microtears, but it will make anal sex way more pleasurable,” they say. If you prefer the look of an underwear-style harness, as many folks who are new to strap-on sex are, be sure to take careful measurements of your thighs and waist before shopping to make sure you’re getting the right size. Underwear harness recommendations

Keep in mind: If you’re going to be using the strap-on for penetration as opposed to masturbation or oral play, you don’t want a silicone toy that’s too soft, such as Cyberskin or Ultra Skin. You’re probably going to get the most use out of a dildo that is 5 to 6 inches long and 1.5 to 1.75 inches in diameter,” says Sloane. That may be too big for your partner, especially if they’re new to pegging or penetration. Vaginal penetration can be pleasurable for some, thanks to the G-spot, the A-spot, the feeling of fullness, and the power dynamics it may invoke,” says Sloane. Sloane recommends strap-on styles, because she says they’re easier to fit snugly to the body and usually have a longer shelf life.For many folks, a huge part of the enjoyment from wearing a harness is watching your partner enjoying the sensation of being penetrated, Stubbs says. “There’s a lot of intimacy in being able to penetrate partner and be close to them. You can have your body right against theirs and use your hands and mouths to kiss and stroke.” Harness play can also be incredibly enjoyable for vulva owners during sex. Depending on the shape of your body and where you position the harness for best thrusting, wearing a harness may lead to a clitoral or vaginal orgasm — or even a blended one.